1.High Expectations
When you expect something from someone and that person doesn't feel the same way you are making the main ingredient for heart breaks. For example when a man pursues you and you directly assume He want to commit to you: you might end up heart broken.


2. Trying to pull the other person closer
Some people freak out when you tend to pull them closer to you. When the person tries to draw back just give them space. When a person tries to be distant and you pull them back makes them think you are cheap, they will continue resisting you and you will be in pain.


3. Not being Open
If something hurts you, you better be open about your feelings. If the person does something that hurts you without knowing how you feel about it, you will always be in pain.

If you see a guy you started dating or you are in a relationship with has the following habits just know You are not alone, He is seeing somebody else

1. He is not openly committed
If your man is not saying that he is not seeing some body else or showing a commitment to a certain extent just know that he might be seeing or talking to lots of other women.


2. He's not Hanging out in the weekends
If the guy only sees you on week days and He seems not to be available during the weekends it means He might be with somebody else during the weekends. You don't want to be that part time woman.

3. He freaks out when you touch his phone
If the guy freaks out any moment it looks like you want to touch his phone just know that there is something fishy going on.


4.His answers are always "maybe"
When your man cant give you straight answers when you plan about something just kno that He is seeing another woman. When you are planning on doing something together He says maybe in order to be open for other options, if the other woman says No to him thats when he will say Yes to you.

5.You always accuse him of seeing other women
If you smell a rat there might be a rat, a woman's intuition is the sixth sense that works accurately. If you always suspect him to be unfaithful He is probably unfaithful.


In case you saw all these signs and you don't know how to ask him, then talk to him seriously whether He wants to commit to you or not so you wont waste any more time. Showing commitment includes spending time together and getting to know people that matter to him.

It's hard when you hear unpleasant news, heart breaking news.
It breaks you into pieces you just don't know what to do and you cant change anything. The hard part of it is its TRUE and Valid.

What do you do?
1. Accept that it happened, denial brings you more pain
2. Know that its not the end of the world
3. Analyze how much your situation may change
4. Live with the change.
Being rigid hurts you even more... Life is short love yourself.

There is a reason and season for every matter on earth.

The first time I read such a statement I didn't know what it meant but now almost ten years letter I understand what it means.

When we were just teenagers most of us believed in people, believed in a better future without considering the fact that anything can happen and change all that.

What we go though shapes us, Sometimes its the bad thing that makes us better people.
What ever happens life goes on, the world wont stop even for a second to wait for you. When you make mistakes pick yourself up and move on you might end up in the right spot just because you made that mistake.

We fall in love with wrong people who end up hurting us so deeply that the wounds in our hurts don't get healed in time and sometimes we walk around with the scars or wounds that never fully healed.

If you have ever been hurt look at the positive side of what happened to you, you are stronger than you thought you were: the pain didn't destroy you completely because someone else went through the same pain and committed suicide and some one out there just lost there lives as a result of the shock.

The time you made that mistake,the times you were hurt and the times you felt so low are the times that made you grow.

Let's be grateful in what ever situation.